Emotional hijacking

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Published on January 30, 2014

Author: Mukteshwar

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Emotional hijacking/Amygdala hijack : Emotional hijacking/ Amygdala hijack By Col Mukteshwar Prasad( Retd ) Based on Goleman’s blog Amygdala hijack : Amygdala hijack is a term coined by Daniel Goleman in his 1996 book Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ . Drawing on the work of Joseph E. LeDoux , Goleman uses the term to describe emotional responses from people which are immediate and overwhelming, and out of measure with the actual stimulus because it has triggered a much more significant emotional threat. Emotional hijacks – this priming, this mechanism, which is usually so positive in evolution – can take us over. During these hijacks we can become very angry. When the dust settles we often think, "Oh, why did I say that?“ Amygdala hijack Amygdala hijack:Concept : From the thalamus , a part of the stimulus goes directly to the amygdala while another part is sent to the neocortex (the "thinking brain"). If the amygdala perceives a match to the stimulus, i.e., if the record of experiences in the hippocampus tells the amygdala that it is a fight, flight or freeze situation , then the amygdala triggers the HPA ( hypothalmic -pituitary-adrenal) axis and hijacks the rational brain. This emotional brain activity processes information milliseconds earlier than the rational brain, so in case of a match, the amygdala acts before any possible direction from the neocortex can be received. If, however, the amygdala does not find any match to the stimulus received with its recorded threatening situations, then it acts according to the directions received from the neo-cortex. When the amygdala perceives a threat, it can lead that person to react irrationally and destructively. Amygdala hijack:Concept Amygdala hijack:Concept : Goleman states that "Emotions make us pay attention right now - this is urgent - and gives us an immediate action plan without having to think twice. The emotional component evolved very early: Do I eat it, or does it eat me?" The emotional response "can take over the rest of the brain in a millisecond if threatened. ” An amygdala hijack exhibits three signs: strong emotional reaction, sudden onset, and post-episode realization if the reaction was inappropriate. Goleman later emphasised that "self-control is crucial ...when facing someone who is in the throes of an amygdala hijack ” so as to avoid a complementary hijacking - whether in work situations, or in private life. Thus for example 'one key marital competence is for partners to learn to soothe their own distressed feelings...nothing gets resolved positively when husband or wife is in the midst of an emotional hijacking. ’ The danger is that 'when our partner becomes, in effect, our enemy, we are in the grip of an " amygdala hijack" in which our emotional memory, lodged in the limbic center of our brain, rules our reactions without the benefit of logic or reason...which causes our bodies to go into a " fight or flight " response ‘ . Amygdala hijack:Concept Introduction: Emotional hijacking at works: Negative moods - especially chronic anger, anxiety, or a sense of futility - powerfully disrupt work, hijacking attention from the task at hand. For instance, in a Yale study of moods and their contagion, the performance of groups making executive decisions about how best to allocate yearly bonuses was measurably boosted by positive feelings and was impaired by negative ones. Significantly, the group members themselves did not realize the influence of their own moods. Of all the interactions at an international hotel chain that pitched employees into bad moods was talking to someone in management. Interactions with bosses led to bad feelings - frustration, disappointment, anger, sadness, disgust, or hurt - about nine out of ten times. These interactions were the cause of distress more often than customers, work pressure, company policies, or personal problems. Introduction: Emotional hijacking at works Introduction: Emotional hijacking at works: Not that leaders need to be overly "nice"; the emotional art of leadership includes pressing the reality of work demands without unduly upsetting people. One of the oldest laws in psychology holds that beyond a moderate level, increases in anxiety and worry erode mental abilities. Distress not only erodes mental abilities, but also makes people less emotionally intelligent. People who are upset have trouble reading emotions accurately in other people - decreasing the most basic skill needed for empathy and, as a result, impairing their social skills. Another consideration is that the emotions people feel while they work, according to findings on job satisfaction, reflect most directly the true quality of work life. The percentage of time people feel positive emotions at work turns out to be one of the strongest predictors of satisfaction. In this sense, leaders who spread bad moods are simply bad for business - and those who pass along good moods help drive a business's success. Introduction: Emotional hijacking at works Spotting Toxic Emotions Before They Infect You At Work : “Emotions are contagious from the leader outward,” says Daniel Goleman The spread of emotions is not a new discovery. Studies show that in as little as two minutes, silent strangers transmit emotions to each other, and the more emotionally expressive person’s feelings prevail. But neuroscience researchers have struggled to explain this phenomenon. More recently, the discovery of “mirror neurons” has prompted further exploration of the social brain , and findings reveal an emotional subtext in every human interaction. The dynamic is notably different in hierarchies than in peer groups: In groups where there are power differences – in the classroom, at work, in organizations generally – it is the most powerful person who is the emotional sender, setting the emotional state for the rest of the group. Spotting Toxic Emotions Before They Infect You At Work Spotting Toxic Emotions Before They Infect You At Work.. : Therefore, in organizations, a leader’s attitude rubs off on his team, either enhancing or impeding the group’s overall performance. Emotional outbursts known as amygdala hijacks are particularly destructive. As the oldest part of the brain, the amygdala prioritizes survival and regulates the fight-or-flight response. Faster than the neocortex (i.e., the thinking brain), it reacts to threatening scenes before rational thinking occurs. In one episode, two recovering addicts – a man and a woman – unloaded on each other. The man unknowingly channeled his resentment toward his mother for abandoning him, and the woman transferred her fear of a physically abusive ex-boyfriend. Like they say, “hurt people, hurt people.” The signs of a hijack are simple: a quick onset, an unusually intense reaction relative to the circumstances, and subsequent regret (i.e., “why did I do that?”). There are four common workplace triggers: Not being treated with respect Not being appreciated Not being listened to Being criticized or blamed Spotting Toxic Emotions Before They Infect You At Work.. Spotting Toxic Emotions Before They Infect You At Work.. : Beware of triggering a hijack from a leader: it poisons an entire organization. Digital technology has reduced communication costs but increased the likelihood of blowups. At Caliper’s 2012 Global Conference, Goleman said that “the new normal is an assault on the social brain.” Email, for instance, has few emotional signals and, compared to an in-person meeting or phone call, is easily misinterpreted. Co workers need to balance virtual communication and face time. Human moments occur when two people share the same physical space while giving each other their emotional and intellectual attention. Harvard’s Dr. Edward M. Hallowell laments their disappearance and reiterates their importance in our lives: To make the human moment work, you have to set aside what you’re doing, put down the memo you were reading, disengage from your laptop, abandon your daydream, and focus on the person you’re with…Together you quickly create a force field of exceptional power. Next time you need to communicate sensitive information, consider the pros and cons of each delivery option. Your organization’s emotional health will thank you. Spotting Toxic Emotions Before They Infect You At Work.. Spotting Toxic Emotions Before They Infect You At Work.. : Hijacks tend to reoccur. They hint at unconscious, ingrained emotional patterns simmering below the surface. Of the 10 noted in Tara Bennett- Goleman’s book, Emotional Alchemy , the following are those that surface most often in the workplace: Emotional deprivation . People who feel deprived are never fully satisfied, and an unavailable boss stirs their old wounds. Subjugation . Characterized by repeatedly putting the needs of others first (to an unhealthy extent), this pattern leads to compliance with underlying resentment. Perfectionism . Those with this tendency are driven to perform their best at the expense of other areas in their life. The smallest criticism focuses their attention on only what is wrong. Narcissism . The rules don’t apply to those with this pattern. As adults, they feel entitled and struggle to delay gratification. Toxic emotions affect you at work. Be especially aware of those emanating from your boss; they’re silently shaping your attitude and performance. If you think businesses don’t run on emotion, think again. Spotting Toxic Emotions Before They Infect You At Work.. Amygdala hijack:Positive Hyjacking : Goleman points out that 'not all limbic hijackings are distressing. When a joke strikes someone as so uproarious that their laughter is almost explosive, that, too, is a limbic response. It is at work also in moments of intense joy ‘ . He also cites the case of a man strolling by a canal when he saw a girl staring petrified at the water. Suddenly, 'before he knew quite why, he had jumped into the water - in his coat and tie. Only once he was in the water did he realize that the girl was staring in shock at a toddler who had fallen in - whom he was able to rescue'. [10] Emotional relearning LeDoux was positive about the possibility of learning to control 'the amygdala's hair-trigger role in emotional outbursts: "Once your emotional system learns something, it seems you never let it go. What therapy does is teach you how to control it - it teaches your neocortex how to inhibit your amygdala . The propensity to act is suppressed, while your basic emotion about it remains in a subdued form" ‘ . Amygdala hijack:Positive Hyjacking

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