Published on November 11, 2014
Most guys are terrified of tests. But once you understand them for a sign of attraction, you can easily use them to generate even more desire in her. To learn more, please visit http://mindpersuasion.com/natural-influence/
1. Easily Pass All Her Tests For Rapid Attraction
2. It's easy to lose your frame when you're in the moment.
3. I was talking to a friend of mine who's struggling with his teenage daughter.
4. He tells me she was so nice and sweet, until she hit about 13.
5. Then she did the opposite of what he recommended.
6. The truth is that from the very beginning, parents and their kids are often on opposite sides of a struggle.
7. Even during pregnancy, the mother and child are in a constant struggle for resources.
8. As kids grow up, their job (as programmed into their DNA) is to become independent as quickly as possible.
9. They test boundaries, and see what they can get away with.
10. The parents job is to set boundaries, and let them know that in life, there are ALWAYS consequences.
11. Male-female relationships are the same way.
12. When you first meet a girl, you've got no idea what she's like.
13. Sure you have an idea of what you'd LIKE her to be like, but if you try and fit that round peg into a square hole, you're going to have problems.
14. That's why holding frame dominance is CRUCIAL.
15. Your job is to set and hold the frame.
16. But her job is to shake it and see if it's really strong, or if you're just faking it.
17. Girls have a deeply programmed fear of getting conned.
18. They don't think about sex the same way men do.
19. Men will bang anything that even looks female.
20. Females are VERY careful who they choose.
21. So when you start to hit her triggers, especially early in the conversation, her deep instinct is to MAKE SURE you're not some faker.
22. Hence the frame tests.
23. When you feel your frame slipping, that's a good thing.
24. Just don't let it slip too far.
25. The easiest way to hold the frame is not to argue, or get offended, or take it personally.
26. Just accept whatever she says, and keep on going with whatever you were doing.
27. This can be tough if you aren't ready.
28. But when you practice some "out framing" language patterns, AND you speak to her in way that will keep her on her toes, it's a lot easier.
29. AND it's a lot more fun.
30. After just a few conversations, you'll LOVE getting those "tests" that so many guys are terrified of.
31. That alone will make you much more attractive than everybody else.
32. And when you mix in all these other mind blowing language patterns, she'll be mesmerized.
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